This kid is full of life and so full of emotions. He feels things deeply and brings out emotions in us as well, both good and bad. This age is really good overall. He's liking school a lot, has made some friends there, plays well with Jo (most of the time), and shows signs of being a rational little person. He still loves music, dancing, and books and has recently taken an interest in drawing. Chris got him a notebook and he has been filling it with things he likes (which is mostly candy). He's also working on writing his letters and can sound out and read simple words. Since Bodie visited he has taken an interest in Legos and can follow the instructions to put some pieces together by himself. He has the best laugh. Over spring break I volunteered at his school one morning and was struck by how happy he seemed and how often he was giggling. He's young enough still that he was really excited I was there (instead of embarrassed by me, which I assume he will be one day). He wanted me to sit by him at snack time and circle time. Such a sweet boy. He's also full of questions. "How do the clouds stay up in the sky?" "How is cereal made?" "Why is dad smarter than you when you're the teacher?"
This age is also full of challenges. Picky eating continues to be a challenge and is a daily stressor for us. I think the other thing that stands out, as I mentioned above, is helping him learn to cope with his own emotions. Disappointment is particularly hard. As I try to help him it often makes me think about how the things he's struggling with are still hard for many (most?) adults. Chris got him a desk lately and he loves drawing and "working" on it. And it just so happens that when he's really emotional he has been able to leave the situation and go up to his room to work at his desk. Time outs have never worked for him (they usually just amp him up more), so the fact that he's able to do this and calm himself down sometimes has been a real blessing.
He challenges me, makes me smile, and has made me feel things more deeply. Being loved by him and loving him makes me feel incredibly lucky. Happy half birthday my best boy!
Lots more photos below.
